You may find yourself in a position where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is not interested", which is a difficult
situation but unfortunately not an uncommon one. First of all, you cannot know for sure if your ex is or is not in love with
you until you ask her.
Your ex may even have said she doesn't love you anymore, and while this is possible, it is also possible that she's simply
saying that. She may still be harboring feelings for you.
Many couples who still hold a candle for each other will have break ups despite their strong feelings.
So you might say "I'm still in love, my ex is not." But you cannot really know this for sure.
If you can truly say, I'm still in love my ex, then there is a good chance that your ex may still also love you as well. This
may not mean that getting back together quickly is a good idea, but the fact that you have feelings for one another is a good
thing, and it means that eventually the relationship may be capable of being rekindled.
The first thing you need to think about is not that you did in fact break up for some reason. Even if you had no interest in
breaking up, if your ex wanted it, then something was wrong with the relationship.
This needs to be dealt with and fixed in order for the relationship to stand a chance. This is not always easy but it is
unfortunately quite necessary if you want your relationship to stand a chance.
So even at the point where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is too", that does not mean that it is exactly the right time
to rekindle things, because you need to do some figuring out first. Even if the mutual split was a mistake, you can't just
automatically make things work.
You may find yourself saying "I'm still in love my ex wants to get back together too,", but that really does not mean it's
time to just jump right back into things. You need to get to the bottom of why the break up occurred so that you can prevent
those things from happening when the relationship is eventually rekindled.
The more you work on trying to understand what happened and why, the better off you will be when you attempt to make the
relationship work again in the future. It really is this simple. It is important for you to understand this concept if you
want the relationship to work as soon as you rekindle it.
Don't mess things up worse by refusing to address what happened to cause the breakup in the first place. If you do not
address what happen there will be no closure and with out closure there will not be a fresh place for the healing to begin.
So communicate and talk to each and not at each other,by this i mean be patient and let he or she finish what they have to say
before you speak or comment.
situation but unfortunately not an uncommon one. First of all, you cannot know for sure if your ex is or is not in love with
you until you ask her.
Your ex may even have said she doesn't love you anymore, and while this is possible, it is also possible that she's simply
saying that. She may still be harboring feelings for you.
Many couples who still hold a candle for each other will have break ups despite their strong feelings.
So you might say "I'm still in love, my ex is not." But you cannot really know this for sure.
If you can truly say, I'm still in love my ex, then there is a good chance that your ex may still also love you as well. This
may not mean that getting back together quickly is a good idea, but the fact that you have feelings for one another is a good
thing, and it means that eventually the relationship may be capable of being rekindled.
The first thing you need to think about is not that you did in fact break up for some reason. Even if you had no interest in
breaking up, if your ex wanted it, then something was wrong with the relationship.
This needs to be dealt with and fixed in order for the relationship to stand a chance. This is not always easy but it is
unfortunately quite necessary if you want your relationship to stand a chance.
So even at the point where you can say "I'm still in love my ex is too", that does not mean that it is exactly the right time
to rekindle things, because you need to do some figuring out first. Even if the mutual split was a mistake, you can't just
automatically make things work.
You may find yourself saying "I'm still in love my ex wants to get back together too,", but that really does not mean it's
time to just jump right back into things. You need to get to the bottom of why the break up occurred so that you can prevent
those things from happening when the relationship is eventually rekindled.
The more you work on trying to understand what happened and why, the better off you will be when you attempt to make the
relationship work again in the future. It really is this simple. It is important for you to understand this concept if you
want the relationship to work as soon as you rekindle it.
Don't mess things up worse by refusing to address what happened to cause the breakup in the first place. If you do not
address what happen there will be no closure and with out closure there will not be a fresh place for the healing to begin.
So communicate and talk to each and not at each other,by this i mean be patient and let he or she finish what they have to say
before you speak or comment.
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